A Conversation with my 2004, Disposable-Diapering Self

In late 2004, when I was expecting my first child, an acquaintance passed along a photocopied packet of information about cloth diapers. It was a bit dated, referring to prefolds and wet pails (if I remember correctly), but it was enough to nudge me to do some looking. Nowadays, a “Cloth Diapers” Google search yields pages of products, stores, blogs and support forums. In 2004, information wasn’t as easy to find, and it was before the boom of “modern” cloth diaper brands.

I actually did find Fuzzibunz sized cloth diapers, and wanted to try them, but was shocked at the cost. I mistakenly thought I’d need 24 each of 4-6 sizes since the site listed XS-XL, plus petite toddler and toddler. I choked at the cost and didn’t think too much more about them. My daughter was disposable diapered, and I bargain shopped, often snagging name-brand diapers for 8 cents each.

By the time I was expecting my second child in 2008, new brands like bumGenius were available, and information was easier to find. My second & third children were/are cloth diapered. I’ve often thought “oh, if only I knew then what I know now!” So, here’s a list of what I’d like to tell my 2004 self!

You do not need to buy 4-6 sizes of diapers! Your first child will be so petite, you may never need anything larger than a small! Your second child will be wearing Fuzzibunz medium when he potty trains. You will also need fewer diapers in larger sizes.

You don’t need to buy them all at once! Buy a few extra-smalls to try. Don’t stress about getting every size diaper right now.

Yes, you will have more children and you can reuse the diapers. In fact, you will be able to bless others with those same diapers.

They will save you money. A nice stash of cloth will cost you less than even the bargain cloth diapers you’re stocking up on. Plus, you can use them again when your first baby is finished with them.

Look harder, there are other resources and diapers out there. Don’t give up. Dig deep in those internet searches and you will find them!

Prefolds aren’t scary. You don’t even need to use pins. You can “angel wing fold” a prefold and cover it, or just trifold them and lay them inside.

They are not hard to use or wash. Keep it simple, sweetie, you’ll figure it out!

Don’t worry about the poop. I know the idea is foreign but Maria, just wait until you have your kids. You will catch, clean up and step in far worse. ;-)

Cloth diapers don’t make more laundry, they make less. The terms “diaper explosion,” “poo-sposion” and “poo-nami” will become part of your vocabulary soon. Enjoy that one photo of your daughter in her pretty baptism gown. She is exploding out of her diaper as the photo is taken. You will change her entire outfit, sometimes yours, and sometimes baths are necessary when the disposable doesn’t contain it all!

You will love cloth diapers. It sounds strange, but you will love cloth diapers, and feel sad about not using them anymore. They are cute, fun, and become second nature.

You will make lots of friends through cloth diapers. You will meet so many other moms, you will make lots of great changes to your lifestyle, and you’ll even get your dream job. All thanks to cloth.

Cloth gets even better! In fact, just next year, bumGenius will be invented! By the time you have your 3rd child, there will be a whole “cloth culture” and you’ll hardly be able to keep up with the brands and innovations!

Did anyone else disposable diaper one or more of their children? What do you wish you could tell your disposable-diapering self?

About Maria Moser

Maria is a 30-something married mom of 3 kids, including a cloth diapered 2-year old. She began Change-Diapers.com over three years ago when she switched her middle child to cloth diapers, and had no idea she'd fall so in love with fluff!
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6 Responses to A Conversation with my 2004, Disposable-Diapering Self

  1. jay says:

    I used disposables with my first. Note to former self: don’t let others talk you out of cloth diapering!

  2. judi says:

    I wish I’d known more about flats when we were struggling so bad to make ends meet that I wasn’t changing my son often enough. He would have avoided the horrible rashes if I had had flats to hand wash.

  3. christine k says:

    I wish I had started cloth from birth… maybe this next time :)

  4. Natalie Zohner says:

    I love this post! I actually just started cloth diapering, and am so surprised at how much I am loving it. It’s my new obsession. I would tell myself to keep an open mind – I never in a million years thought I would be the one to cloth diaper. :-)

  5. Amanda S says:

    I am preparing to cloth diaper our first LO! I love all of this info and what you can find now! I am already obsessed, but I am slowly stocking up month by month! Some of our friends think it is crazy, but others are curious. I can’t wait to share what I learn!

  6. Maggie Martin says:

    I started cloth with my first when he was about a year old. This upcoming baby we’re starting right off. I’m so exited!

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